Friendship Skills

Even as we’re supposed to be more connected, our world can feel more isolated. A former surgeon general once called it a public health crises.

With our on-the-go schedules, it’s often challenging for kids to make friends. The world doesn’t always allow our children to free range together. We’re told they can’t roam parks and school offers less play and more work.

Yet children need free play to hone lifelong skills of resilience, resolving conflicts, and, most importantly, making friends. At our camps, we focus on creating an extended community of support, developing “friending skills” through shared adventures.

Everything is about connection. It needs to go beyond just learning outdoor skills. We understand that kids join Trackers—and parents send them—to discover or reconnect with friends. They also come to build a relationship with the wilderness.

We work to reclaim that connection to nature with very unique teaching methods. The modern outdoor education movement is fantastic, but when it’s only geared towards a sport or academic, we reduce ourselves to tourists of the wilderness.

Sure, our camps teach survival, fishing, archery, kayaking, and rock climbing; yet those adventures are only vehicles through which they get to know the more-than-human world. Trackers campers are always “tracking” in the forest, and this helps kids feel a part of nature, not just a visitor.

This is a core value for us: the more you track or learn about an animal, plant, or person, the more you care about them. Empathy is at the root of building community. I learned this with my own children: Robin (8 years), Annie (5 years), and Maxine (3 years).

With the right training from the Trackers Community, my three kids free range and never feel lost or alone in the forest. They know the local elk herd whose trails they easily follow, even across hard to track ground. They have personal names for individual trees, birds, or wildflowers.

This is an essential feeling of familiarity, of extended family. Our purpose is to help all children discover their own innate sense of belonging in the natural world. And with that same connected empathy, learn to create greater friendships in the human one.

All the best,
Tony Deis

Trackers Earth
Founder & Dad

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